How To Reduce Your Stress During The Festive Season
The demands of this time of the year can take a toll on both mind and body. For some people the festive season is not the happy, joyous time that is often portrayed in the media. The following suggestions are not new, but sometimes we can all benefit from a reminder of reducing our stress by taking to look after ourselves as well as those we care about.
- Be generous, but sensible. This is the time of year when the need to please others can take over from sensible thinking. Credit cards get maxed out and personal debt mounts. Reduce your financial stress by tempering your generosity with common sense. Watch your finances and spend only what you can afford.
- Keep in mind what's important. For most people, the holiday period is really about taking the time to appreciate the people closest to them. Consider skipping some parties or events to catch up with those important to you. If visiting the in-laws for special meals makes you tense, take a deep breath and consider the meaning it has for your partner and children. Make that meaning part of your happiness.
- Avoid excess. Needless to say, this time of year brings an excess of food and drink. Pace yourself and say, “no.” to the second helping or extra drink. You'll feel much better the next day when you do.
- Take time to exercise. Take a walk with the dog, or go for a jog four or five times each week over the holiday period. You'll get a range of benefits, including a boost from the body’s mood-lifting chemicals and some quality time to yourself.
- Get enough sleep. Lack of sleep is sure to increase your stress and fatigue. Resolve to have a bedtime which gives you the amount of sleep you need. If you're tired, don't be afraid to leave the party or festive gathering earlier than planned and don't fool yourself by saying to others that you're fine on only 3 or 4 hours sleep.
- Don't let travel get the better of you. The holiday season is often a time when many people travel. If you're travelling by car, plan ahead, ensure the kids are entertained, take breaks and drive safely. You may be an experienced driver, but a lot of other road users are not. If you're taking a plane, this is a time when delays are common. Have a good book, tablet or some other device to help you pass the time. Getting upset or stressed has never speeded up the departure time.
- When families all come together, people sometimes say and do a range of inappropriate things. If possible, resist the urge to take offence. Keep things in perspective. This can be an important part of reducing stress. Don't expect miracles or dramatic change just because it’s a special day. If you and certain family members grate on each other, you can be sure there'll be tension at the family gatherings. Avoid the triggers that tend to set off disagreements.
- If the demands of work or shift rosters result in you or a family member missing in the holiday period, plan a time prior to this when everyone can be together for a meal or special gathering. This can be followed with phone calls on the actual day of celebration, or a Skype session.
- People have different expectations around Christmas. If there's a potential for conflict or misunderstanding in the family, consider ways to head off problems early. Some people want everyone to get together, while others prefer their own small gathering. Split and blended families can present some unique difficulties. Talking about things early can head off most people from being upset because their expectations were not met.
The festive season can be a time of stress and joy. Try to make it more joyous!